happy birthday,  Mr sex‹3

happy birthday, Mr sex‹3









this won’t get 1% of the women’s version of this post. 

the world we live in, and people in general don’t care about men. we are pretty much robots who aren’t allowed to show emotion. we’re taught from a young age that boys don’t cry. 

fact is women are sexualised, men are idealised. because men can’t be raped because they’re big and strong right? right? yea, pretty much the idiots view of living. 

signal boost this shit

reblogging because I cannot stand when people act like women are the only things in the world

Reblogging because the pictures are important.

But the comments are fucking ridiculous. I would delete them if I weren’t on mobile.

Yes, it is a fact that men are indeed raped. In the old days when I identified as male, it happened to me. On two separate occasions. Both by girls I was dating at the time. And whenever I had the guts to share my story, I was told what every survivor all too often hears: that it was my fault and that I must have wanted it to some extent, else I wouldn’t have let it happen.

Yes. It happens. And we women fucking know it happens. BUT. Isn’t it funny how the only times we hear about men’s experiences are in efforts to derail and silence women’s experiences? Isn’t it funny how we never hear “Men are raped”, only “Men are raped too”? And isn’t it funny how when no one takes a male survivor seriously, women are blamed?

If a man is raped and feels that he can’t speak out on it, or is ridiculed when he does, it isn’t the fault of women. It’s the fault of a patriarchal society that dictates a man must be manly and masculine and if he shows any sign of vulnerability, that strips him of said masculinity. And who do you think built a society like that? It sure as hell wasn’t women.

Don’t throw us under the bus to make your voices heard. Stand with us and we can make OUR voices heard.


What’s really annoying is that the original commentary on this post wasn’t guilt-trippy or in any way derailing campaigns against sexual violence against women. Someone actually deleted the original commentary, which included a link to more images in this set, just to essentially throw female victims and survivors under the bus.

OMFG this makes me even more mad, it also credits Project Unbreakable who organised this campaign and it was deleted. That’s a project that is helping male survivors voices to be heard, but nope let’s just erase that to tell women to shut up. This is further evidence that these folks don’t give a fuck about the survivors in the photos, they don’t care about signal boosting campaigns to help them, they only notice when such men can be used as tokens, that’s truly disgusting.

There are plenty of issues I would support a men’s rights movement for, such as respecting men regardless of sexuality and fighting for male rape victims and destroying the idea that rape emasculates male victims and for trans men having their gender respected. Sadly, what you see above is “Men’s Rights Activism” which only serves the purpose of fighting against feminism. Stop using the people you should be fighting for as weapons agains feminism.

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